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Most Enneagram books today focus on stroking ego rather than challenging it. These pages are filled with a no-frills, hilarious reckoning with the ways we cope when facing stress or fear - aka our shadow sides - while unlocking the life-changing wisdom of the Enneagram.
The Unfiltered Enneagram offers 'practical strategies for liberating yourself from your own garbage,' writes Elizabeth Orr. She believes that when we learn from both our healthy and shadow sides, we can jumpstart genuine, practical growth and actually begin to love the whole of ourselves.
Readers will discover how courageously and comically acknowledging the worst attributes of their Enneagram type can surprisingly bring out the best in them.
Filled with laugh-out-loud descriptions, sobering truths, and inspiring prompts, each chapter is an under-the-rug look at the nine Enneagram Types:
Type One - R Is for Reformer (and Resentment)
Type Two - Self-Sacrifice with Some Serious Strings Attached
Type Three - Hall of Mirrors in a House of Cards
Type Four - Feelin' Misunderstood (and I'm Going to Make it Your Problem)
Type Five - When Intellectual Maximalism meets Emotional Minimalism
Type Six - Who Needs Trust When I've Got Projection?
Type Seven - The Paradoxical Paralysis of Making Too Many Awesome Plans
Type Eight - Large, in Charge, and Just This Side of Belligerent
Type Nine - Comfortably Numb (and Impressively Stubborn)
Insightful for long-time enthusiasts, pragmatic for newer fans, and hilarious and accessible to all, The Unfiltered Enneagram shines a generous light on the good, the bad and the ugly side of you - inviting you to see that the only way to find self-compassion is to embrace wholeness.
Author's Note: This Is Not Another Enneagram Book . . . . . . ix
Part I: Introduction
Enneagram History and Overview of the Types . . . . . . . . 3
Enneagram Types as Pattern- Making Machinery, Not
Personality Traits. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12
Ethical Etiquette of the Enneagram and Other
Housekeeping Items . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22
Part II: The Gut Center
Introduction to the Gut Center . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31
Type Eight - Large, in Charge, and Just This Side of
Belligerent . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36
Type Nine - Comfortably Numb (and Impressively
Stubborn) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 52
Type One - R Is for Reformer (and Resentment) . . . . . . 67
Part III: The Heart Center
Introduction to the Heart Center . . . . . . . . . . . . 85
Type Two - Self- Sacrifice with Some Serious Strings
Attached . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 90
Type Three - Hall of Mirrors in a House of Cards . . . . . . 106
Type Four - Feelin' Misunderstood (and I'm Going to Make
It Your Problem) . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 121
Part IV: The Head Center
Introduction to the Head Center . . . . . . . . . . . . 137
Type Five - When Intellectual Maximalism Meets
Emotional Minimalism . . . . . . . . . . . . . .142
Type Six - Who Needs Trust When I've Got Projection? . . . 156
Type Seven - The Paradoxical Paralysis of Making Too
Many Awesome Plans . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 170
Conclusion . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 187
Acknowledgments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .191