What Wives Wish their Husbands Knew about Sex: A Guide for Christian Men

by Richard Rupp; Ryan Howes; Stephen Simpson

Publisher:

Baker

, 2007

It's an unfortunate reality that many men grow up in churches that suppress their God-given sexual urges. As a result, many Christian men, single and married, are frustrated with their love lives and their sex lives. The authors of this book claim that Christian men should be the greatest lovers in the world and then work to show men how to do it. They help men:

-learn what the Bible says about a healthy sex life -discover how to relate to women as men instead of as boys
-address psychological and spiritual issues that interfere with healthy sexuality
-learn specific techniques that create a strong relationship, great foreplay, and passionate sex

Solidly based in Scripture and informed by the experiences of the authors, all respected sex therapists, What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew about Sex dispels the myths that keep good Christian men from experiencing sex as God meant it to be. Perfect for any man, it is also a great book for counselors and pastors who work with men.

From the Back Cover

FRONT COVER

"A straightforward, no holds barred, entertaining manual for Christian men."--Neil Clark Warren, founder and chairman, eHarmony.com


BACK COVER

A candid guide to men's sexuality

In the beginning God created man and woman--and sex. But men and women don't always see sex in the same way. This straight-talking guide helps men understand the difference--and helps women appreciate it too. Here are the facts of sexuality as you never heard them growing up--explicit, yet honest and accurate--minus the winks, nudges, and snickers.

In great depth and with much candor, the authors explore the biblical, psychological, emotional, and physical aspects of making love.
• Gain new insights into your own sexual makeup and the desires of your wife
• Discover the most important thing to a woman
• Learn how to become a better lover
• See why knowing Christ can free a man to experience amazing love and incredible sex with his wife

Whether you're married or planning to be someday, this is a must-read.

"The authors have reclaimed sex as God's good gift, meant to be lavishly and extravagantly enjoyed by men and women who want the fullness of intimacy that God intended."--Linda M. Wagener, associate dean of the school of psychology, Fuller Seminary

"This book breaks the fears and destructive guilt of Christianity into its true design to follow the real principles of sexual love as it was meant to be"--Frank Lawlis, author, The ADD Answer and The IQ Answer

"Combining candor with humor, frankness with sensitivity, and professional knowledge with personal experience, this book offers a delightful overview of what husbands need to know about sex."--Jack Balswick, coauthor of Authentic Human Sexuality and A Model for Marriage

Ryan Howes, Richard Rupp, and Stephen W. Simpson are psychotherapists who specialize in marriage and men's issues.

Contents

Top Highlights

“The first lesson is that anticipation is the best part of passionate love” (source)

“The second lesson is that the woman wants to be pursued.” (source)

“The ancient Hebrews provided community support for a whole year so the couple could spend time with each other, build a relationship, and go wild in the bedroom.” (source)

“Here is lesson seven: passion is the couple’s retreat from the rest of the world” (source)

“Just as God showed his love by sending Jesus to be ‘God with us,’ loving your wife means that you prioritize your time and energy to be with her.” (source)

Product Details

• Title : What Wives Wish their Husbands Knew about Sex: A Guide for Christian Men
• Authors:
  • Rupp, Richard
  • Howes, Ryan
  • Simpson, Stephen PhD
• Publisher: Baker
• Publication Date: 2007
• ISBN: 9781441201416

About the Authors

Ryan Howes (Ph.D., Fuller Theological Seminary) is a therapist in private practice who specializes in helping men overcome sexual issues. He is an adjunct faculty member at Fuller Theological Seminary and Pepperdine University.

Richard Rupp (M.F.T., Fuller Theological Seminary) is a licensed marriage and family therapist at Pasadena Psychotherapy Center and has taught at Fuller Seminary. He is a frequent speaker at men's conferences and retreats.

Stephen Simpson (Ph.D., Fuller Theological Seminary) is the director of the Fuller Psychological and Family Services and is an adjunct professor at the seminary.