Thirty-Seven Myths about Marriage: What I Think I Know and What I Wish I Knew

by Alan J. Hovestadt; Kenneth W. Schmidt; Brian S. Canfield; Karen B. Helmeke

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Resource Publications

, 2022

Thirty-Seven Myths about Marriage describes common misconceptions about what happens in marriage--myths that never come true, no matter how much one believes them. Unhealthy thoughts, feelings, and behaviors flow from those myths that harm the couple and their relationship, leaving them unhappy and dissatisfied. The authors provide realistic suggestions for a healthier approach to marriage and attainable goals. The book also contains questions for personal reflection or group discussion among individuals, couples, groups, or with a personal counselor or life coach.

Praise for Thirty-Seven Myths about Marriage

“Thirty-Seven Myths about Marriage is a must-read for married people and those preparing for marriage. The easy-to-read text dives deep into mistaken beliefs about marriage and holds up a mirror for readers to self-reflect and consider specific strategies to strengthen their relationships. The straightforward guidance and humor make this book both practical and enjoyable. Expect to be encouraged and challenged by a text that feels like a conversation with a wise friend.”

—Jennifer M. Foster, Western Michigan University



“A perfect ‘10-out-of-10’ book for couples entering marriage or experiencing marital struggles. Thirty-Seven Myths about Marriage is easy to read and promotes critical myth-shattering insight via its simple ‘Mythical Thinking.’ Counselors and Clergy will find Hovestadt and Schmidt’s book a frank and refreshing pre-marriage primer for their clients and congregants. Marital partners will find the book helpful in shattering dysfunctional myths while stimulating stronger and healthier marriage relations.”

—Gerald A. Juhnke, The University of Texas at San Antonio



“Thirty-Seven Myths about Marriage is a sensible, down-to-earth read that identifies illusions that couples bring to their marriages. As couples read this guide and identify and challenge the ‘myths’ that impair their own relationships, they can defy the destructive effects of the myths. This book is a must-read for those in committed relationships.”

—David L. Fenell, University of Colorado Colorado Springs

“Thirty-Seven Myths about Marriage is a must-read for married people and those preparing for marriage. The easy-to-read text dives deep into mistaken beliefs about marriage and holds up a mirror for readers to self-reflect and consider specific strategies to strengthen their relationships. The straightforward guidance and humor make this book both practical and enjoyable. Expect to be encouraged and challenged by a text that feels like a conversation with a wise friend.”

—Jennifer M. Foster, Western Michigan University



“A perfect ‘10-out-of-10’ book for couples entering marriage or experiencing marital struggles. Thirty-Seven Myths about Marriage is easy to read and promotes critical myth-shattering insight via its simple ‘Mythical Thinking.’ Counselors and Clergy will find Hovestadt and Schmidt’s book a frank and refreshing pre-marriage primer for their clients and congregants. Marital partners will find the book helpful in shattering dysfunctional myths while stimulating stronger and healthier marriage relations.”

—Gerald A. Juhnke, The University of Texas at San Antonio



“Thirty-Seven Myths about Marriage is a sensible, down-to-earth read that identifies illusions that couples bring to their marriages. As couples read this guide and identify and challenge the ‘myths’ that impair their own relationships, they can defy the destructive effects of the myths. This book is a must-read for those in committed relationships.”

—David L. Fenell, University of Colorado Colorado Springs

Product Details

• Title: Thirty-Seven Myths about Marriage: What I Think I Know and What I Wish I Knew
• Authors: Alan J. Hovestadt, Kenneth W. Schmidt, Brian S. Canfield, Karen B. Helmeke, Gary H. Bischof
• Publisher: Resource Publications
• Print Publication Date: 2022
• Logos Release Date: 2022
• Language: English
• Resources: 1
• Format: Digital › Ebook
• ISBNs: 9781666748925, 9781666748918, 9781666748901, 1666748927, 1666748919, 1666748900
• Resource ID: LLS:9781666748925
• Resource Type: Monograph
• Metadata Last Updated: 2022-09-29T19:58:07Z

About the Authors

Alan J. Hovestadt is professor emeritus of counselor education and counseling psychology at Western Michigan University. He is a past president of the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Licensed Professional Counselor. He has served on the editorial boards of three professional journals and has been recognized numerous times for professional achievements in teaching, research, and authorship by state, national, and international professional organizations.



Kenneth W. Schmidt has been a Roman Catholic priest for forty years, has a master’s degree in counseling psychology, and is a Licensed Professional Counselor. He is cofounder of the nonprofit Trauma Recovery Associates, serving people with childhood trauma. With a PhD in canon law, he’s been a judge in marriage tribunals for thirty years. He has received two distinguished alumni awards from Western Michigan University and has published books on trauma and the Psalms.