Prey Tell: Why We Silence Women Who Tell the Truth and How Everyone Can Speak Up
Ebook
Overview
”A welcome book offering an important wake-up call to the Christian community and beyond."--Gail Eubanks, Library Journal
Tiffany Bluhm wishes this wasn’t her story to tell. Yet like many women today who are taking action against sexual harassment and sexual assault, it is. Bluhm explores the complex dynamics of power and abuse in systems we all find ourselves in. With honesty and strength, she tells stories of how women have overcome silence to expose the truth about their ministry and professional leaders--and the backlash they so often face. In so doing, she empowers others to speak up against abuses of power.
Addressing men and women in all work settings--within the church and beyond--popular author and podcast host Tiffany Bluhm sets out to understand the cultural and spiritual narratives that silence women and to illuminate the devastating emotional, financial, and social impact of silence in the face of injustice.
As readers journey with Bluhm, they will be moved to find their own way, their own voice, and their own conviction for standing with women. They’ll emerge more ready than ever to advocate for justice, healing, and resurrection.
From the Back Cover
”Silence is not spiritual, and action is not optional"
Prey Tell explores the dynamics of power and lack of accountability that occur within many organizational contexts and encourages women and men to speak out in the face of unjust systems.
“A devastating look at how culture, theology, and economics combine to uphold abusers and to silence those who try to speak the truth in our day and age. Tiffany Bluhm lays out all the ways it costs women to speak up, inviting us into the terror of this situation while also asking us to grapple with our own role in enabling this cycle to continue. A must-read--a truly difficult read--for anyone who longs to see justice upheld in our world."
--D. L. Mayfield, author of The Myth of the American Dream: Reflections on Affluence, Autonomy, Safety, and Power
“Bluhm leads the way by doing with this book what we all need to do--break the silence, tell the truth, believe women, protect the survivors, and end sexualized violence against girls and women."
--Hillary McBride, psychologist, author, speaker, and podcaster
"Bluhm bravely paints a poignant picture of the damage of unchecked misogyny both within and outside the church. I am so grateful for the role this book will play in our collective fight for justice, restoration, and dignity."
--Liz Forkin Bohannon, CEO of Sseko Designs; author of Beginner’s Pluck: Build Your Life of Purpose and Impact Now
"An absolute must-read book for our age, breathing courage into survivor and ally alike--reminding the world that silence is not spiritual, and action is not optional."
--Belinda J. Bauman, author of Brave Souls: Experiencing the Audacious Power of Empathy; cofounder of #SilenceIsNotSpiritual
"Prey Tell offers an urgent word to followers of Jesus, challenging the church to believe women and form cultures that protect the vulnerable, advocate for victims, and practice transparency. If you care about the church’s culture and witness, buy Prey Tell in bulk."
--Bryan Halferty, lead pastor of Anchor Church, Tacoma, Washington
Contents
Introduction
Part 1: Why We Silence Women Who Tell the Truth
1. Everything Is Just Fine
2. His Way or the Highway
3. Be Quiet
4. But He’s Done So Much for Me
Part 2: How We Silence Women
5. What Do You Have to Lose?
6. The Questioning
7. Puppets of the Patriarchy
8. Look at Who I Am
Part 3: How Everyone Can Speak Up
9. Allies
10. It’s Not Her Fault
11. He Is Not Indispensable
12. Believe Women
- Title: Prey Tell: Why We Silence Women Who Tell the Truth and How Everyone Can Speak Up
- Author: Tiffany Bluhm
- Publisher: Brazos Press
- Print Publication Date: 2021
- Logos Release Date: 2020
- Pages: 192
- Language: English
- Resources: 1
- Format: Digital › Ebook
- ISBNs: 9781493429660, 9781587434785, 1587434784, 1493429663
- Resource ID: LLS:9781493429660
- Resource Type: Monograph
- Metadata Last Updated: 2025-06-13T16:27:16Z
Tiffany Bluhm is the author of She Dreams and Never Alone and their companion Bible studies. She is cohost of the podcast Why Tho and speaks at conferences and events around the world. Her work has been featured in World Vision magazine and on the YouVersion Bible app, the Hallmark Channel, and the Jenny McCarthy Show. She leads an engaged audience of 50,000 followers online and is committed to encouraging people of faith to live with conviction, substance, and grace. As a minority, immigrant woman with an interracial family, Bluhm is passionate about inviting all to the table of faith, equality, justice, and dignity. She lives in the Pacific Northwest.