In order to heal the wounds in our society caused by the breakup of marriages and families, couples must commit to the life-long application of God's principles. Whether you’ve been married five months or fifty years, Family Factor will teach you ten principles for a life-long marriage.
“Research makes it clear that little girls are blessed with greater linguistic ability than little boys, and it remains a lifelong talent. Simply stated, she talks more than he. As an adult, she typically expresses her feelings and thoughts far better than her husband and is often irritated by his reticence. God may have given her 50,000 words per day and her husband only 25,000. He comes home with 24,975 used up and merely grunts his way through the evening. He may descend into ‘Monday Night Football’ while his wife is dying to expend her remaining 25,000 words.’” (Pages 12–13)
“But God’s plan for marriage is different, as described eloquently by Pastor Bill Hybels: ‘In a biblical marriage, each partner looks the other in the eye and says, ‘I love you,’ which by definition means I commit myself to serve you, to build you up, to cheer you on. I know full well this is going to cost me lots of time, energy and money, but I want to put your interests ahead of mine. I’ll stand at the back of the line; you go first.’” (Page 11)
“The world’s view of marriage emphasizes maximum pleasure with minimum sacrifice” (Page 11)
“One person wrote, ‘Choosing a spouse means that you will inevitably be choosing a particular set of unsolvable problems that you will be grappling with for the next 10, 20 or 50 years.’” (Page 45)
“The third reason there is conflict in marriage is because we are self-centered.” (Page 44)